tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5829162137963866383.post1578526882111101393..comments2023-10-19T00:42:35.763-07:00Comments on The Rant Mistress: No ifs, no buts, no excuses, there is a global problem with rapeUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5829162137963866383.post-18497049630705148662017-03-20T13:00:04.288-07:002017-03-20T13:00:04.288-07:00Guys, how hard is this to understand: 'No'...Guys, how hard is this to understand: 'No' means no and underage means a lack of capability to agree. You're the adult - be the fucking adult. What is central to this whole discussion is the understanding that rape isn't just about sexual urges - hey, guys, you've still got a right hand, right? - but about inadequate men desperate for some sense of control over their lives. It's about the culture of male boasting, of a lack of respect for women and a complete inability to understand the violation and lack of self-worth that raped women feel. How do we change this? It's partly, I guess, the constant objectivication of women in the media, the lack of voices in the media stressing consent and a general acceptance that being 'male' means drinking too much, getting involved in violence on the football terraces and - as an add-on - believing than any woman - ANY WOMAN - is just gagging for it. Guess what guts? A woman who wants you is a much more exciting experience...dave reederhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13925955727419875731noreply@blogger.com